lol

[SharpPudding]

lol I just thought this section was funny.. I'm going to have to bring all my dirty laundry here.

[Joey]

too bad sandy's left us, else he could have ranted about me here as well and how much he hated me lol.

but you know, being honest about these things as Dharma brothers and sisters can help us grow and solve issues rather than pretending that we're not angry at anyone and not talking about it, and instead talk in a way that imply our unhappiness with that person very subtly and in a very sneaky way -- goes nowhere, and in the end we lose out. Talking out issues that you're not happy about with the person involved and working a way to get to the solution would help everyone in the long run.

hmm. now i see the need for a counselling section or mediation section in case we have more cases like the aforementioned.

[SharpPudding]

lol people and relationships are such a hassle

[Joey]

lol people and relationships are such a hassle

yes but they're essential to Dharma practice at the same time. weird huh?

[SharpPudding]

Yeah,..  it's kinda like when someone has a flesh eating ulcer and you have to cut out even more flesh before it will heal,.. Well, actually it's not like that, but the analogy is kinda like that.